I can’t “remain” respectful, because I wasn’t respectful to begin with. I have no respect for you whatsoever, not even a little, and I have no intention of lying about it. Why should I lie? Credibility is my stock in trade. If I got caught lying, my credibility would evaporate like dew in the morning sun. And what would I get in return? You being happy? Sorry, it’s not a fair trade.