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Documentary depicting worng ideas about BDSM
Date Edited: 01 Mar 2007 12:28:23 PM
Now, this "interview" makes some wrong conclusions, only because one peson abused you doesn't mean everyone into BDSM is abusive and use "mind control techniches" (by the way, behavorial inductive psychiatry is stuck, the "mind control" can't make people change completely, it can be used for phobias but it is not like the sci-fi movies and can't turn anyone into a pet without the will of the person (of course talking about adults)).
You are an adult, and you made wrong choices, don't blame the BDSM culture for that, you chose to shoot with insex, you chose to do a degradating sex video, NO ONE FORCED YOU, there was someone with a gun pointing to your head??? I don't think so ... please grow up and learn to asume some responsability for your acts...
This world is very violent, and cases of physical ad psychological damage to women are (sadly) very common. That is something that has to change, but it is up to the laws, government and society; I agree wit that, but I don't think this happens only on BDSM related women, it happens to "normal" people and with higher numbers; you are pretending that abuse against women is caused by the BDSM culture, and miss the fact that there are lots of BDSM women that don't suffer from any real abuse...
Im into BDSM and Im always gentle with the girls I play with. I explain the rules and set a game making sure Im not doing any real harm to the girl...I love fantasy, I guess Im just a big kid... and most people in the scene are the same as me, yeah there might be a couple of psychos, but I bet there are some too into church groups, golf clubs, soccer teams, etc... Please don't blame the culture, don't blame the imagery, and don't blame honest, working people like me for your shitty life... dont put us all in the same bag, because you are giving a wrong idea about BDSM culture just for a couple of bucks...
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